Protectin_My_Peace_

Introduction

Every day is a lesson, and some lessons come when you least expect them. As someone who teaches positivity, self-love, and accountability, I’ve learned that growth doesn’t always happen in calm moments—it often happens in chaos. This week reminded me that even when we fall short, reflection and humility can help us realign with our purpose.

Protectin’ My Peace

On Monday, things got stressful. I woke up today feeling bad—ashamed and embarrassed about my behavior. Although I was defending my mother, maybe I could have handled it differently. To be honest, I’ve been replaying everything in my mind, trying to find the right words, but the truth is, I wouldn’t change the fact that I stood up for her. That’s my mama.

Wherever we go, I make sure she’s taken care of. I stand in line for her so she can sit down since her fracture, and I always look out for her. Unfortunately, I got into an altercation with a Bingo member who I already knew didn’t like me. I preach, teach, and write positive affirmations—and yet today, I feel like a hypocrite.

I only went to Bingo on Monday because they weren’t open on Sunday. I knew I’d be having surgery soon, and I wanted to make an appearance—to network, connect, and leave something memorable behind. It was my first time having a table set up for donations, and I was genuinely excited. But that excitement turned sour. Everything I stand for—positivity, patience, and self-control—was tested in that moment.

The truth is, I hate stepping out of character. I don’t like entertaining foolishness or being drawn into negativity. Last night, I reflected and decided I needed to express my feelings publicly—not for attention, but to release them and move forward.

So, to the Bingo staff, the owners, and the patrons who were just there to enjoy the game—I sincerely apologize. I’m also sorry to my mom, who was trying to calm me down while I was being held back. The woman lunged at me first, and I reacted. After that, everything became a blur. This woman never liked me—maybe because of my attitude, my shoes, or who knows what else. But truthfully, I don’t care anymore.

If you’re not part of my circle or my purpose, I wish you well from afar. God bless you and your future endeavors, but I refuse to let you have space in my peace.

Today, I’m focused on bringing back the positive energy I allowed someone to take from me. I want to rebuild my spirit and continue my work with a clear mind. I’m proud of the small nonprofit I’m building despite my struggles, health challenges, and setbacks. That one incident won’t define me or my mission.

This morning, I choose forgiveness and reflection. I choose to be the woman I inspire others to be. I can’t change what happened, but I can change how I carry it.

Today is Wednesday, and I’m still working to shake off the negative energy from Monday—ironically, from “the happiest place on earth,” Bingo. I never want anyone to see me as aggressive, ghetto, or unaware of how to handle myself. I gave someone else power over my peace, and that’s not who I am.

For now, I’m stepping away from social media to focus on myself and the hobbies that bring me joy. I plan to send flowers to the elders at the Bingo hall to apologize for stepping out of character. I must live what I teach.

I’m 49 years old with multiple health issues, and the last thing I want to do is argue or fight in a Bingo hall with an unhappy person. This is my exodus from negativity. I wish everyone at Bingo nothing but good luck and blessings.

Respect means a lot to me, and that’s why I made sure to personally apologize to the Bingo owners. I’ve learned that no one can take your energy unless you allow them—and I allowed it. Today, I’m letting it go and praying peace over that woman and her life.

One thing about my mom—she loves Bingo. We usually go on Sundays: she plays, and I socialize. I’ll never play when it comes to my mom. Some people wish they still had theirs, and I know how blessed I am to have her.

Now, it’s time for reflection, serenity, and mindfulness. I’m reaffirming why I started my nonprofit—to help others, to lead with love, and to walk in purpose. Monday wasn’t a good look for me or my organization, and that’s why it hurts so much. I’ve built this from the ground up, and one video could undo everything I’ve worked for.

But I’m grateful for the people who supported me through that moment and reminded me to let it go. Sometimes friends and associates become your village.

Lesson learned: Never be the aggressor, even when you’re right. Protect your peace—always.

Closing Note

Peace isn’t something you find—it’s something you protect. Life will test your patience, your faith, and your purpose, but every mistake is a reminder that growth takes grace. I’m still learning, still healing, and still pushing forward. To everyone reading this, protect your peace at all costs, and remember—you are not your mistakes, you are your recovery.

— Tyrese Y. McKie

Founder, Mentor the Motivated